Road to 21

A self-reflection program to look back on a wobbly 2020 and set yourself up for a fabulous 2021.

This crazy messy year is finally coming to an end...

This global pandemic has frustrated, surprised and changed us in so many ways...

  • Did you have to cancel holidays or events you planned to attend?

  • Did you worry more than usual?

  • Do you feel like you haven't really achieved anything?

  • Are you afraid what the next year will bring?


Does 2020 feel like one big blur?

We get you. But... we're in this together!

So how about bringing some stability to the shaky ground we're on right now?


What's inside Road to 21?

Depending on the offer you choose you’ll get:

  • Three e-workbook with introductions to the topics, many themed questions, space to jot down your answers, extra tips and psychological insights. You'll also have a look at your feelings, fears, behaviors and dreams.

  • A personal coaching call to deep-dive into your questions, personal development topics, limiting beliefs, your action plans to achieve your goals...


  • Support from our coaches in case you're stuck or have a question.

Our offers:

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This is Road to 21



In exactly



we will start 2021.

Until then, it's the perfect time to review your 2020, know where you stand right now, get clear about your vision and goals for 2021 and make your plan to get there. 🚀

Self-reflection can be a little overwhelming if you do it alone.

This is why we’d like to guide you through.

Road to 21 entails three e-workbooks: 

1. Looking back at 2020

2. Assessing your current situation

3. Defining your 2021 goals and actions

The 30-day guided program has started and doors are temporarily closed.


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What people say

“The self-reflection program inspired me very much with the many questions for reflection. The daily inputs on a wide variety of topics also initiated many exciting discussions that would otherwise certainly not have been held. Thus not only bringing me a step further, but also my loved ones.

Thanks for the great project!"

- Lisa

Frequently asked questions

How much time should I spend per day? 😊

During the 30 days until christmas, we recommend that you work on the e-workbook every second day for 20-30 minutes. You can also do it on the weekends, or in one go.

What if I don't have enough time before christmas? 🙃

Road to 21 is totally self-paced and can be done whenever you want to do it. You can also start with it during the christmas holidays or in the beginning of January.

Can I gift the program to someone for Christmas?🎁🎄

Yes! The basic version of Road-to-21, just the e-workbooks, can be offered as a gift. Please contact us: and we'll figure it out together.

Why should I invest in a self-reflection program? 🤔

It’s so easy to lose track of who you are, what you enjoy, where you are in life, and where you’re going unless you purposely and intentionally take time to reflect. Many people set "new year's resolutions" but fail to plan on how to really achieve those goals. This is why only 8% of the people end up achieving their goals. We want you to be different. By intentionally doing self-reflection, you can increase your self-awareness, emotional intelligence and confidence about your skills and dreams.


Nicole's annual life review story

Hey! I'm Nicole, a psychologist, coach, consultant and the founder of Road to 21. Today, I want to share my story with you...


Last fall, I was not in a good place: I was very unhappy at work, had been rejected at several job interviews and didn't really know what I wanted. Basically, I was kinda lost. 😔

Then, Christmas came. After dinner, every family member was raving about their new projects and I could sense their enthusiasm while literally laying on the floor.

Where would I gather the courage to act like they do? To just go out boldly, chase opportunities and not being afraid of rejection?

Fortunately, a day later, my sister had the perfect gift: She put together a guide to reflect on the past year and to set goals for 2020.


It took me a long time to reflect and write down 15 pages.

But I really liked the outcome - I got clarity, a confidence boost and guess what: 2020 turned out to be a fabulous year for me and I truly stretched my comfort zone big time.

Since then, I've done and researched a lot about self-reflection, as well as delivered a very successful "Self-reflection September" with over 90 participants this fall.

I'd be very happy to support you on your Road to 21!

Louise's self-reflection story

Every year, at the 5th of December, we celebrate Sinterklaas. It’s a Dutch tradition, actually only for kids, but my favorite day of the year. Why? It’s a day in which we are together with my family and (aside from the gifts) we always write rhymes for each other. These can be about anything (the good, the bad AND the ugly) as long as it is about something that happened in the last year.


This is where my love for reflection comes from. It takes time, a lot of time to write these rhymes, but the outcome is very satisfying, as it reminds us of all our experiences, learnings, fun and less fun moments and sets a nice platform to show some gratitude. Just like actual reflection!

Self-reflection is going even a step deeper, it’s not about others, but completely about you! Showing, accepting and appreciating the milestones and your actions of the past year, helps to set a clear focus for the coming one(s).


In the last years I’ve learned a lot about the person I am and inspire to be. It’s an amazing journey and I am looking forward to achieve the same with and for you!

Road to 21 is perfect for you if...

...You want support to reflect on 2020 so you get to the lessons learned and the thoughts and behaviors that held you back.

...You want to increase your self-awareness, self-knowledge and emotional intelligence.

...You want to kick-start 2021 with a clear mind and confidence.

...You want to set bold goals for 2021 and you want to get tricks from psychology on how to make them bullet-proof.

Let's also get clear on who Road to 21 is NOT for:

  • It's not for you if you don't enjoy personal development or self-reflection.

  • It's not for you if you're not willing to put in the work. You'll get out what you put in.

  • It's not for you if you are convinced that nothing is under your control.

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